This is for a conversation that is still going. If it has ended and you are looking back, that is the Reflection — a different read, and the right one for a finished conversation.
1 · Your situation—2 · Check and answer—Your Orientation
Your draft is waiting
You wrote this one in your own words and three of the questions were laid out from it. Nothing has read it yet. Open it to check the layout, answer the two only you can answer, and send it.
The one you used when you wrote it.
This only opens it. Nothing is read until you send.
How would you rather tell it?
Both get you the same read. Pick whichever is less work right now.
What would help most right now?
This changes where the read puts its weight. Either answer gives you all three parts.
Five questions
Write what was said and done, not what you were thinking — except where a question asks for your thinking. Two of them do.
Their words where you remember them. What they did, including what they did not do.
Your read, not a fact about them. “Not sure” is a real answer.
1 is a guess. 5 is certain. No one else sees this number yet, and it is not given to the reading.
Recorded before you act, so the read can be checked against what actually happens.
“Not sure” is a real answer, and the most useful one to record honestly.
A last look before you send
What has happened so far
However it comes out. Where it started, what they have said and done, what you have done. The order does not matter.
A last look before you send
What you wrote
Kept exactly as you wrote it. Nothing below replaces it.
Kept permanently and never edited — it is the only place a reading can be checked against the words it was built from.
Three I could lay out
A layout of what you wrote, not a reading of it. Correct anything I got wrong — these are your words and they should stay yours.
Two only you can answer
These are not in what you wrote, because they were never said out loud — they were in your head at the time. I will not guess at them.
Where you think their thinking is right now — and how sure you are. asked
1 is a guess. 5 is certain. No one else sees this number yet, and it is not given to the reading.
Recorded before you act, so the Orientation can be checked against what actually happens. asked
A last look before this is read
The one Caveris has on file. It is how your record is found.
Notices & Consent v0.13
Takes about a minute. Nothing is read until you send.
Your Orientation
Keep this link. If the conversation is still open, we’ll email it to you in 3 days, and once more a week after that. Use the same email when you come back.